One Doomsday theory that’s been going around on the internet is that the Mayans ran out of calendar space thus declaring that the end of the world was to be on Dec 21, 2012. That, or there was alcohol, then a calendar (from @mayansofficial).
In any case, we’re here and it’s 2013! WHOOPEEEE! 2012 was hellaaaaa awesome (working the Bay Area slang!) and I have no doubt that 2013 is going to be even more so.
BEST OF 2012 IN PHOTOS:
While there are certainly MANY MANY MANY milestones that happened last year, I figured I’d choose the best of the best to share with you otherwise this post will NEVER get published!
Oh yes. There were high levels of triumph, relief, and absolute ecstasy as I marched up to the stage to receive my diploma. Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology with a Minor in English Literature? CHECK! 4 years full of ups and downs, trials and successes, academic and personal growth, friends and memories that I will cherish forever? CHECK, CHECK, CHECK, and CHECK. Though I was skeptical about going to college in Ateneo at first (because it offered no degree in Education), and though I had passed all the other universities I had applied to WITH degrees in Education, when it was time to decide where to go for college it just felt RIGHT. I’ve always been partial to my gut, and I’m happy to say my gut was right yet again; “The” Ateneo de Manila University has become my 2nd home, and I feel completely blessed to have taken full advantage of the opportunities it presented me with. Looking back, I’m very satisfied with how my college experience turned out. I believe I made good decisions, great friends, and learned beyond what was taught in the classroom. To quote Jose Rizal (yes, I’m really going to do this) “I spent many happy years there”. I have absolutely no regrets. Thank you for contributing to my education and formation, Ateneo!
2. REVEL MAGAZINE
During one of our Poveda girls lunches in school (Poveda is my High School, and a good amount of Povedans went to Ateneo for college), Chrissie talked about her dream of putting up a magazine for fun. Something we could use as an avenue to write about things we were passionate about, and keep us connected after college. A few months after graduation REVEL MAGAZINE was born. We’re basically a lifestyle magazine with 9 columns covering a broad range of interests. We’re heading into our sixth month this January and I’m pleasantly surprised with the growth and support we’ve been receiving! I’m excited to see how far REVEL is going to go! In fact, why don’t you check us out at http://www.revelmagazine.net and see if we’re your cup of tea!
3. MOVING TO THE USA
This is probably THE highlight of 2012. I could base an entire blog on this milestone (oh wait…I already am) but for this particular post, I’m going to try and be succint. To do that, I will use bullet points (because sentences have this way of making me turn them into paragraphs) but I’m not making any promises.
- If you don’t already know, my primary reason for moving to the US of A is a familial obligation. Everything else like pursuing a graduate degree is secondary to that
- I didn’t want to go, I thought I’d be abandoning a life full of promise in Manila, I thought I’d be leaving all my friends and loved ones behind. But whoever said I couldn’t have all of that here too?
- Being plucked out of your comfort zone and dropped into a new country can be scary. But also, very exciting. It really depends on how you choose to adapt to the change. I’ve chosen to take full advantage of the opportunities and experience the US of A has to offer!
- My life here is just beginning, so to those of you who constantly ask me this question: no, I do not have a boyfriend, nor have I begun dating. While I know you’re all looking forward to that sort of kuwento (and believe me, you know I’d tell you if there was anything to tell), I honestly would like to be more or less a whole person, have my life kind of figured out, before getting into that. I want to be able to really stand on my own two feet and be really comfortable in my own skin first. So yeah, timing is important and my priority right now is MOI. Anyway, it’ll happen whenever it happens and you’ll definitely hear about it 😉
- My older sister and her husband think I need to “get a life” and make friends cause I’m always at home. I think I’ve already begun “getting a life”, and making friends will come naturally. After all, I’m me. HAHA. But to be honest, I’m liking the alone time I’ve been having for the past months. I realized my life in Manila was so fast-paced; full of places to be, people to meet, deadlines to beat, etc. that I never really had much time to myself. I was on the go 24/7 and my health would suffer because of it. My mom and dad kept telling me to slow it down, but I was too busy to slow down. Some of my relationships with important people in my life suffered too (but it’s all good now!). This change of pace is nice because I get to make up for lost ME time.I have more time to retain a sense of calm and introspection. I’m trying to find a balance between by workaholic tendencies and my newly acquired chillness. I now have a chance to sit down and ask myself; what is it that I really want out of life? Am I doing things for the right reasons?
- It’s true:The US does make you grow up faster. What I mean is, no one is going to spoon feed you, so you have to grow some balls or else you’ll be eaten alive.
- Am I liking it here? Surprisingly, yes 🙂 It’s definitely different and I’m still feeling my way through, but so far it’s been a great learning experience altogether! One thing that stands out is the relationship I am building with my older sister who left for the US when I was 10. Since then, occasional emails over the years kept us in touch, but not really connected. Now, I feel like she’s really my older sister and it’s nice to have a real relationship with her. Our younger sister Bianca was 5 when my older sister left, so she and my older sister have a lot more relationship building to do when Bianca gets here.
- In relation to the previous bullet point, I believe everything happens for a reason. Maybe one reason of this move is to bring me closer to my family. I’ve always been jealous of close-knit families and wondered why my family wasn’t like that. I mean my younger sister, my mom, and I get along great but the rest of my immediate family is spread out. My older brother and his family are in Canada, and my dad, my older sister, and her family are here (in different cities, no less). So it has always felt like my family was just my mom and sister, and my friends. But now I’m getting to know my family and my wish for 2013 is that we can all be together. I know that’s been my dad’s wish for years, which is why we’re all moving here for a while. Eventually though, the plan is to move back to the Philippines, but we’ll see how that turns out. Anything can happen. Personally though, it’s still my goal to put up my school back in the motherland, and raise my own family there. But for now, I’m going to make the most of my stay in the US of A! 😀
4. Getting a job I really like & meeting inspiring educators
I feel blessed to have gotten not just a job, but a job I really like, right away. The school, teachers, parents, and kids are just so amazing, warm, and inspiring. I can say the same for the other 2 schools I volunteer for. It just makes me all the more certain that I’m in the right field.
5. Meeting up with friends for a weekend in the City!
Last December 1-2 was a blast. A number of my friends from college have also moved here after graduating, and we’re pretty much all trying to adjust to our lives here. It was great to see them all and catch up! Kat flew all the way from Maryland and Em from LA!
5. I chopped off all my hair!
(Okay, maybe just about 10 inches or more). I figured, new life, new country, new hair!
Thank you 2012! I’m sure 2013 will be just as eventful! And to complete this NY post, here are my 2013 resolutions:
1. Sleep earlier – Sleeping at 1 or 2 and waking up at 6 am seems to really mess up my system. Not to mention, my skin has been reacting badly to the consistent late nights. AND if I don’t have work, I end up sleeping in until 12 noon, wasting the first half of the day 😦 So my goal for 2013 is to get my body clock used to sleeping at 11pm the latest!
2. Walk more – anyone who knows me knows that I prefer not to be active. I’d choose reading a book in bed over going out for a walk. But lately, I’ve been feeling really lethargic even if I’ve had a good amount of sleep, and I’m thinking it’s because I’m not at all physically active. Also, my work requires me to move around a lot (especially when the kids want to play Hot Lava Monster) and I find myself quick to tire. At 23, that’s not such a good thing. I should be at my prime, but I feel like I’m 50. So, I resolve to walk more. That means, instead of taking a 5 minute bus ride to work, I’m going to walk. Sure it’ll take about 20 minutes longer, but it’s a pleasant neighborhood anyway, so the walk’s going to be enjoyable. Now all I have to do is hide my clipper card so I’m not tempted to take the bus!
3. Make sure to have ME time – I know that this is the calm before the storm and that I’m going to get really busy again VERY SOON, but I resolve to make sure I have some time every week to just unwind and refresh myself. Whether it’s meditating or playing the uke at the park, I have to remember to step out of all the busyness and just be.
4. Be a better lover – OHO I know what you’re thinking! What I mean is, I’ve been really happy and full of love lately, and I want to channel that into others in a positive way. I am also blessed to be so loved by my family and friends, the kids I work with, etc. There’s just a lot of love going around, and sometimes I can take that for granted. A few days ago, I was reflecting (like I said, I do that a lot now!) and I realized that I can be really difficult especially to people very close to me. And sometimes, I don’t even let them know, through words or actions, that I love them or that I’m thinking about them or that I care. Isn’t that weird? You’d think that I’d be laying the love on pretty thickly, but that’s not the case sometimes. And yet, they continue to love me, and accept me, and be patient with me. So I have resolved to be a better lover; to be more appreciative of my family and friends, to love without expecting anything back, and to be wise enough to know if someone is worth loving or not.
5. Grow some balls (figuratively) – sometimes, I get this urge to do something but I don’t because I’m scared. Of what, I’m not exactly sure. Maybe I’m scared of the unknown, or of looking like a dolt, or of feeling out of place. But I think now is the time for me to really explore every part of who I am and if I find something that can contribute to my growth, then I should stop being scared, quit doubting, and just give it a go. Like I’ve been meaning to join this yoga at the park thing, but I haven’t yet because I was thinking…what if they’re all super pro and I can’t keep up? Or what if this, what if that, excuses excuses. I realized that the person holding me back is…well…me. So if it interests me, and it’s going to teach me something new or challenge me, I should just go for it. And anyway, isn’t experience the best teacher?
7. Be open – I’m the type of person who does whatever I can do to achieve my goals. While this can be a good thing, it can also be limiting. My dad often tells me, “Be open, see the forest instead of the trees.” I have a tendency for tunnel-vision and I miss out on alternative courses of action that might be even better than what I’ve set out to do. I can get pretty focused on one thing that I tend to neglect other things. So for this year, I’m going to develop my sense of open-mindedness and flexibility; I’m going to consider all options available to me before zeroing in on anything.
I’m sure that as 2013 goes by, I’ll have added more to this list. But for now, I’m going to focus on living out these resolutions.
HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL OF YOU!!!